My dearest beloved clients,
I know how arrogant this is going to sound, but trust me.
I feel like I have the biggest gift to offer you. I have recently noticed a long-held pattern in my coaching and counseling practice. As you know, my specialty is identifying patterns. It's a doozy.
I just returned from the incredible privilege of witnessing one of my clients marry his true soul mate on a beach in Maui. Absolute bliss and absolutely the most beautiful union I know of.
In the ensuing weeks I have repeatedly been reminded of a fairly long list of clients and former clients who have worked with me to clear their internal triggers and cellular memory patterns. They have consistently turned their obstacles into pathways and opened their beautiful hearts up to both attract and receive their *perfect* love.
There are no perfect humans, and perfect love in humanity requires diligent attention, presence and maintenance, but finding that love that is perfect for you is possible.
If you're single...
It is imminently possible, even probable, that you can move yourself into that space of being open, ready, and clear to attract and receive that soul mate. I've been amazed as I've looked at the fairly long list of my clients who have stepped into a far sweeter, greater love than they thought they could have.
If you're married or partnered...
Believe me when I tell you, you can use the principles of Sacred Sexuality and the dynamically powerful tool of Family Constellations to clear the long-held patterns in yourself, your partner (without ever telling them what you think is 'wrong' with them :) and that third thing between you that I've come to call your “Marriage Entity.” It is entirely possible, if not probable, to reset your relationship to pristine beauty, or even get it to that place for the first time.
I will also be honest and tell you some partnerships are past their expiration date of whatever eternal/soul contract they have and the pain of continuing in intimate relationship beyond that point can be excruciating. This work will either bring you to the place where you either find a completely new relationship with each other or you “use” each other to rise to your fullest growth potential in the moment and gracefully, easily release the contract and the learning between you and give each other the gift of moving on to the next great phase of your human journey of loving and being loved.
The work is challenging--so many choose to avoid it and simply exist or survive--but the results are so, so worth it. To step into thriving in love is your ultimate purpose, above any other purpose on this Learning Planet we call Earth.
We humans work out our deepest learning agendas within the arena of intimate relationship, so we can really screw with it if we don't know how to own that learning. Most of us are taught to blame our lack or our upset on the opposite gender/partner and it's perfectly acceptable in our culture to Man Bash, Woman Bash or Partner Bash.
It's not their fault or responsibility, it's nobody's fault, and it's our own responsibility if we want to empower and Own our lives with passion. You can clear your learning path and your blocks and find the purest love available in humanity--the kind that always teaches you--and you can experience that learning with grace, with ease and with absolute joy.
Please come to this month's Saturday Constellations Workshop. Together let's find the way to that thing you know you are missing. Don't write yourself off--restricting that kind of love as being for other people only. Please don't give up.
I know I'm promising the Moon here; but I've seen too many of my clients work through the deepest of merde (French for "shit," but you're not supposed to say that word in a blog) to their personal clarity and intrinsic beauty, and then find that love that matches their vibration.
I will give you the biggest thing you'll ever learn about Love, attracting Love, and keeping Love...
Your partner (present or potential) is not the source of your love: if they leave, die, cheat or mistreat you, you will feel immense pain only because you've mistaken them for the Source of your love. Here's the good part! Brace yourself! YOU are Source of Love for you in this Universe--and you are not alone.
One more freebie: My clients who work on this through the triggers and hooks of love/romance/sexuality find that the other parts of their lives (business/success/money--even parenting) change exponentially even before the sex and romance change.
I promise you'll still need to do the work of the human journey, but you can embrace it with gusto (rather than dread) when the learning presents itself and you know what to do with it. That, my dearest friends, is the sweetest of bliss: knowing what to do with your human journey.
Anything is Possible.
April's Saturday Systemic Constellations Workshop is on May 7th at my office in Sumner from 9am to 1pm. I don't think you should miss it.