Relationships are the place from which you invite your deepest learning--whether you want to or not.
The more intimate the relationship, the more powerfully designed it is to challenge your growth. Your unconscious mind chose your partner like the psychic genius that it is: your love interest is perfectly designed to both augment your happiness and trigger the living intolerance for change right out of you.
I feel like I have the biggest gift to offer you. I have recently noticed a long-held pattern in my coaching and counseling practice. As you know, my specialty is identifying patterns. It's a doozy.
I just returned from the incredible privilege of witnessing one of my clients marry his true soul mate on a beach in Maui. Absolute bliss and absolutely the most beautiful union I know of.
In the ensuing weeks I have repeatedly been reminded of a fairly long list of clients and former clients who have worked with me to clear their internal triggers and cellular memory patterns. They have consistently turned their obstacles into pathways and opened their beautiful hearts up to both attract and receive their *perfect* love.
It’s Transition Season in the cosmos.
There’s no avoiding it—I’m certain you’re feeling it. You can cover your head and endure, and you can look around and ease the journey by essentially taking the rocks out of the river you’re travelling upon. Conscious and intentional focus on the very nature of your “upset” or transition will shift your shift into a pleasurable, exciting, happy, anticipatory thrill ride.
Something wonderful happened to me the other day, and shortly after that something else wonderful happened. I had no idea how they could possibly find me or manifest for me–but here they were! I later realized I had set clear intentions for both things to come into my life some time ago...
In wilderness survival training there’s something they call The Long Nav.
The Long Nav is an experience taught and tested by skilled and willing Mountaineers. It consists of navigating your way out of the wilderness on a very specific trajectory...
Currently, my first rule for living is that “Life has to be Play” — if it’s not play I’m not doing it right. I have managed to begin to make work into play, every day, in some way, so I can continue to choose it joyfully...
The days when your chakras have been accidentally aligned are the same pristine days when you’re “in the groove” and when the cosmic coincidences keep going your way. On these days, serendipity is the norm...
My clients come in with very specific agendas. Simple ones. Not easy ones. Agendas like, “I want to learn to step into my sexual power.” or “I need to figure out how to stay centered when things get stressful.” or “How do I stay in my adult mind when my spouse is throwing a tantrum?”
Inevitably they think the answer lies in dissecting the moment or the problem...
The body is the backup singer for the Spirit. If you aren’t listening to the subtle cues of spirit, your body will let you know what you missed. A simple example is having too many things going on at once and being too rushed to rest–so you get a summer cold, which forces you to drop everything and lay on the couch and ponder your early demise...
Allow me to explain: I've decided not to let my clients spend their lives or even their therapy believing they are damaged, wounded, broken -- worst of all, victimized...